THE THINKER

People enter into marriage relationships with the sole aim of bettering their lives, to achieve what they couldn’t while single, to have somebody to fall to when the chips are down, and for procreation. It did not just start overnight. It took a whole lot of personal commitment, self denials, assessments, multiple dating / courting  which finally landed into a marriage. All these were done to ensure that “I’M MARRIED TO THE RIGHT PERSON”. But you may ask, ‘ WHY THE DIVORCE LATER?’           Was it that the above points were not put in place?           Was it that you were blinded by your emotions then?           Was it that you were forced (or coerced) into it?           Was it that you were ill advised?           Was it that you were deceiv...

SINGLEHOOD... ANY WORRIES? I just decided to blog about this topic because of the ‘madness’ and stigma attached to either. The Married wished they were single, regretting why they married; the Singles wished they had married to taste the other side of life. Each believing that the grass is greener on the other side.  Life is in stages and comes with its attendant challenges at each stage. Before  one reaches puberty, he/she has understood the functions of his various body parts. The body shapes starts changing rapidly due to the activities of hormones. These body changes will definite determine how they react to the opposite sex – each tending to show affinity to the other sex. This is characterised in the adolescence stage where infatuation is at work. ...AND NOW THE CHILD IS GROWN AND HAS MATURED INTO AN ADULT ABLE TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITIES.... Most things in life have two faces:             The coi...